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You Have a Pipeline for Everything.
Except Your Love Life.
Your Matchmaker On Call™:
30 days with the Matchmaker to the 1%™ personally guiding and vetting your dating life in real time.In 30 days, you'll know who fits, where to meet them, and how to filter faster—so you stop wasting time on the wrong people.30 Days · One Question a Day, Answered Within 24 Hours · $2,500
A private dating guidanceexperience.
Matchmaking and introductions are not included.
You're Not Short on Options.
You're Short on Qualified Ones.
You know how to find a qualified hire.
A qualified advisor. A qualified client.However, when it comes to love, the system you use everywhere else disappears.The apps give you volume. The bars give you noise. Your friends set you up with whoever happens to be single.You end up asking the same question at midnight: Where do I even find someone worth my time?Then, when you do meet someone, a second question: Is this real, or is this the same person with a different name?You don't need more options.
You need a better way to find them, and someone who can see what you're too close to see.
THE SOLUTION
In 30 Days, You'll Know Exactly Where Your Person Is, and How to Recognize Them.
• You'll know who qualifies. Not a wish list. A clear picture of the person who fits the life you've built, and the pattern that's been pulling you toward the wrong ones.• You'll know where they are. The specific rooms in your city where qualified people actually spend their time.• You'll know how to filter fast. What to ask, what to watch for and when to walk away, so you stop investing months in people who were never going to work.• You'll have a matchmaker vetting your options in real time. Send me the profile, the text, the date recap. Get my read before you invest another month.
How it works
Your 30 Days, Week by Week
Who's worth a second date, what to change, and your match-ready sign-off from me.
Week 1:
Who Qualifies
We start with a private strategy call. We build your partner blueprint and name the pattern behind your past choices.
Week 2:
Where They Are
We'll identify promising places, communities, and social environments in your area where you're more likely to encounter compatible people—and create a practical plan for you.
Week 3:
How to Filter
My screening questions and warning signs, plus live vetting of the people you're meeting.
Week 4:
Your Review
We review your connections, identify what's worth pursuing, and build your plan for dating with greater clarity and confidence.
Your Matchmaker, In Your Pocket
• One question a day, Monday through Thursday, answered within 24 hours.• One private strategy call to start your 30 days.• Up to two 15-minute calls for the moments that can't wait.• Someone who already knows your story, so you never start from the beginning.
You make the decisions. You just don't make them alone.
Built for Accomplished Men and Women
Women may have questions such as:“Is this inconsistency—or am I overthinking it?”“Should I address this or let it unfold?”“Am I maintaining my standards—or protecting myself too much?”“He seems interested. Why isn't this progressing?”“Is there something here worth continuing to explore?”
Men may have questions such as:“How is my communication actually landing?”“Should I pursue, pause or ask directly?”“Is she interested—or simply being polite?”“How do I move this toward exclusivity without forcing it?”“What am I missing here?”
Different situations.
Same advantage: an experienced perspective when you're too close to the situation to see everything clearly.
This Was Made for You If...
Who Is This For?
❤️You're actively dating—or genuinely ready to be.
❤️You're looking for a meaningful relationship, not something casual.
❤️You're capable of making your own decisions but value an experienced, objective perspective.
❤️You're tired of crowdsourcing important dating decisions to friends, social media, AI, and Google.
❤️You want private, personalized counsel without engaging a full-service matchmaker.
❤️You'd rather address uncertainty while it's happening than dissect it weeks later.
This Is Not For You If...
❌This isn't for you if you're looking for guaranteed outcomes, guaranteed introductions,
or someone else to make your dating decisions for you.
❌You need immediate or 24/7 access. Between-call access is available Monday–Thursday,
with responses generally within one business day.
❌You're looking for an ongoing coaching program. This is a focused 30-day private advisory experience.
THE INVESTMENT
Private matchmaking is a significant investment.
For 30 days, you get my eyes on your dating life, my filter on your options, and a clear plan for meeting the right people.
Let's Do This
$2,500
30 days · Private strategy call · One question a day, Monday–Thursday · Two calls · Weekly plan · Match-ready sign-off · Black Book Registry™ included for women while enrolled
*Limited monthly enrollment each month, so every client gets personalized attention.All fees are non-refundable.
Meet Your Matchologist
Kai · Matchmaker to the 1%™
Founder, Black Tie Introductions™
ESSENCE Contributor · Author of Done Swiping Series ·
Why I Built This
I've watched accomplished people build extraordinary lives, yet struggle to find someone to share them with.They go on dates that lead nowhere. They settle. Too often, they keep choosing the same person—with a different name and a different face.As a matchmaker, I've heard both sides of the dating story. I see the patterns people miss when they're too close to the situation.My rule is simple: Don't waste people's time.I created Your Matchmaker On Call™ to help you stop wasting yours.
Ready When You Are.
Questions
Is this matchmaking?
No. This is private guidance, 30 days at a time, to help you find and choose the right people. Matchmaking is Black Tie Introductions. Matchmaker On Call clients do receive priority consideration for it.Will you introduce me to someone?
Introductions aren't included. Women are included in the Black Book Registry™ while enrolled and can be considered for my Black Tie gentlemen. Men receive priority consideration for Black Tie Introductions.What if I'm not dating anyone right now?
That's exactly where Week 2 starts: where to find people worth meeting.Is this for men too?
Yes. Accomplished men and women both work with me.Is my information private?
Always. Discretion is the foundation of everything I do.What happens after 30 days?
You can renew month to month at $2,500, or I'll tell you honestly whether Black Tie Introductions or another next step fits better.
Your Next 30 Days of Dating Will Happen Either Way.
The only question is who's in your corner while it does.
Your Matchmaker On Call™ is a 30-day dating advisory experience and does not include matchmaking or guaranteed introductions. All purchases are final, subject to applicable law.
Your Matchmaker On Call™ provides personalized dating guidance and support. Results vary, and no specific dating, relationship, introduction, or matchmaking outcome is promised or guaranteed. This service is not therapy, mental health care, legal advice, or crisis support.
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